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Make Conscious Choices (2006)
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Practice
presence– the #1 quality in all great
leaders – to be better able to handle whatever shows up,
moment to moment.
Check out how the San Diego Padres
are doing. Pay
particular attention to the frequency of and recovery from injuries by
the
pitching staff. That
may tell you
something about possibilities to improve the functioning of your own
organization.
As reported by the Wall Street
Journal (March –18-19
2006), San Diego is one of several baseball teams looking at new
conditioning
programs to help reduce injuries.
The
Padres have turned to one regimen whose relevance in business is other
than it
seems. And that is
yoga.
Yes, yoga – originally an
exotic activity from India
(skinny people in turbans performing pretzel contortions), then a fad
for
health-conscious women, now going mainstream.
We know of one senior manager who gave his direct reports
gift
certificates for private sessions with his yoga teacher instead of the
usual
Christmas items from Tiffany’s – promising them
that yoga would improve their
golf game. Others
emphasize the
stress-reduction possibilities of yoga. Ironically, in fact, that
benefit leads
to skepticism in business circles; in Europe, for example, our
colleagues tell
us that businessmen don’t believe people can be productive in
the “blissed-out
state” that they assume to be yoga’s goal.
But they’re missing the
point. Yoga is not
about becoming so serene that you
don’t care about such mundane matters as earnings and
performance goals. Its
focus is awareness: what’s going on in
your body; where are you strong or weak, tense or loose; how are you
feeling;
what’s the quality of your thoughts. And, above all, where
are you in relation
to other people and things – not where were you yesterday, or
where might you
be tomorrow; but where are you right now.
In other words, we’re
talking about a practice in presence
– the number one quality of all great leaders.
As one of Betsy’s yoga teachers recently pointed
out, the whole point is
to “Make conscious choices.”
An excellent example of a leader
who prized presence long
before the concept appeared on the pop culture agenda is Harry Truman. Thrust into the Presidency
upon the
unexpected death of Franklin D. Roosevelt in April 1945, Truman
immediately had
to overcome shock – his and others’ – to
lead a country at war. And
within four
months, he had to make perhaps the most momentous decision of any
leader ever:
to drop the atom bomb on Hiroshima.
Before we go any further, in the
interest of full disclosure,
we confide that wrestle with our own habits in our desire to be more
present. Bob was a
perpetual worrier; if
things seemed to be going well, he’d worry about not worrying
enough (see our
column in the January 2006 issue).
Betsy
is a champion second-guesser; “shoulda, coulda,
woulda” has played over and
over in the middle of too many of her nights.
So we’re struck by the
fact that Harry Truman never lost
sleep over his responsibilities, or his decisions.
The day that he became President, for example,
Truman had spent a boring afternoon presiding, as Vice President, over
a
session of the Senate. He
was on his way
to have drinks with Congressional cronies when he was called urgently
to the
White House. There,
Roosevelt’s widow
broke the news: the President, who had dominated American politics for
13
years, had died in Georgia. After
a
jury-rigged inauguration, Truman met with the Cabinet he had inherited
– all of
them emotional, virtually speechless.
That very night, Truman heard for the first time about the
developing
atom bomb. And
then, he went home…and
went to sleep.
“The job I had in the
White House was not so very
different from other jobs,” Truman was quoted by Voice of
America on June 27,
2002. “I
didn’t let it worry me.
Worrying never does you any good.
So I have never worried about things much.”
Second-guessing was also spurned
– even when it came to
the decision to drop the bomb. As
Truman
told Merle Miller for the 1973 biography Plain Speaking: “A
man can’t do
anything more than (the best he can)…You can’t
think about how it would be…if
you had done another thing. You
have to
decide.”
That assertion was borne out in the
same book by Miller’s
interview of Dean Acheson, Truman’s Secretary of State. Acheson said
Truman’s greatest quality as
President was his ability to decide.
“He
was not a man who was tortured by second thoughts.
Those were luxuries, like self-pity, in which
a man in power could not indulge himself.”
Truman’s view on second
thoughts was summed up in an essay
originally aired in 1955 and repeated by NPR on April 4, 2005. Truman wrote:
“It has been my policy to obtain the facts
– all the facts possible –
then to make the decision in the public interest and to carry it out. If the facts justify the
decision at the time
it is made, it will always be right.
A
public man…must live in the present
(emphasis ours); make his decision for the right on the facts as he
sees them
and then history will take care of itself.”
The name of that essay:
“A Public
Man Must Live in the Present.”
Leaders of organizations or teams
are included among those
who “must live in the present.” Practice presence,
and you’ll be buttressed
against common problems with such insights as:
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You’re
not as interesting as you think.
Conversations, particularly those about problems or
conflicts, are
complicated when our mental chatter drowns out what is actually being
said. Becoming
aware of our internal
dialogue – our assumptions, biases, judgments –
makes it easier for us to
listen to and process what is actually being said.
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You
don’t have to act on every impulse.
How much time has been wasted in “ready, fire,
aim” activities? The
stronger your sense of urgency, the more
likely you are to be swayed by imagination and fear.
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It’s
not all about you. It’s
natural to
draw on our own experiences, our learning and our hard-won
life’s lessons. But
that can lead to tunnel vision, making it
harder for us to let in information and insights from others.
The mechanics of presence are
simple, if not easy: calm
down; stay curious and open. Make
certain your thinking is clear,
high-quality. To
ensure such mental
presence, check in with your body. We all get lost in thought
sometimes; our
minds take us into the past (second-guessing) or future (worrying). Fortunately, we are
biological beings with
five senses that allow us, at any moment, to snap out of a mental fog
and be
present. So make adjustments in your body to help ensure quality
thinking: breathe
steadily; unclench your jaw;
carefully stretch out tight muscles; sit or stand straight and
balanced; plant
your feet firmly on the ground.
Finally, don’t confuse
calm with “blissing out.”
Stuff happens, moment to moment, not all of
it easy or pleasant. Presence
doesn’t
ensure that we will always be happy. But from the stance of presence,
we can
effectively deal with whatever shows up.
The San Diego Padres, for example, don’t expect
to end all pitcher
injuries; they just want to ensure the best possible recoveries. We, too, can
accomplish better outcomes as
we, like Harry Truman or Betsy’s yoga teacher,
“Make conscious choices.”
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